Vypie
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Everyone hates when someone starts calling you names, or saying offensive things. It seems to happen a lot, from what I see and read! Saying such things can ruin the fun of a game if you let yourself become affected by them. But some people are just like that, and most of the time there is nothing we can do to prevent that. ...Or can we? We may not stop them from saying such immature things, but we can start looking at it from a more real perspective. If they call you noob or worse, it's either one of 3 very similar things: -They lost/will lose the battle, and they feel SO BAD, they must say something negative to try making themselves feel better. -They are overpowering you, knowing they will win, or they won. They feel the need to express their superiority, they need to establish they are better, because... they actually feel very insecure about themselves. -Luck changes the game against them and they lose. Suddenly the game is stupid and UNFAIR, and they try to compensate by calling names, again, to not feel inferior (Because these sort of people let themselves become affected easily, from insecurity) This is true, it is basic psychology. So just pity them, because that is the maximum peak of happiness they will ever be able to reach. It's their way of overcompensating themselves. They absorb and eat so much negativity that they then redirect their frustration towards other players. You are BETTER than them, so feel better, and don't let yourself be affected by what they are saying. Don't drag yourself to their level. Remember, it is completely normal to become pissed by a real offensive comment. But if you know the reasons behind their behavior, just be sorry for them. Facepalm in real life if you need to. They wont affect you. By not responding back to their offensive comments, you wont refuel them. Saying something nice in the beginning of the match can also help change the bad energies they are carrying, preventing such behaviour. Battle on.
< Message edited by Vypie -- 12/9/2012 2:16:17 >
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