Elf Priest JZaanu -> RE: what do you say (11/25/2014 12:59:24)
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There are many reasonings behind this rude behavior. What I suggest for players whom deal with this is to try to understand the demographics of this game at this current state. It is mainly young males. Expression tends to mimic older or alpha type peers. These people can be found with other online/real friends, TV/Radio/Online, and lastly, family/community environment. Normally, if a person whom has a positive frame of mind, it is very unlikely they will express negativity. There are situations, sadly, that puts people in a negative or bitter state which can result in this poor abusive language/behavior. When one competes with/against a person whom is in a bitter state, just do understand, it could be a reflection within their reality. There are also people whom are negative that try to instigate annoyance for joy. Same issue, if they are feeling hurt or sad within, this behavior is a poor way to feel valued by hurting another. A mute button would be great, and definitely will be effective for many situations, but there is not one available in EpicDuel now. My suggestion is to question the player. If a player called you any name or a fowl remark, ask them the reason why. Sometimes the indirect courtesy can lead to a resolvement if the person states the reason. There is no full solution because of the nature of humanity with so many scenarios, but the best one can do is having strength of self and not let your personal focus be altered to make another feel better by negative means. Additionally, children rarely take responsibility for their own action(s), and tend to make excuses or blame others. In a family role, elders and parents are the ones whom support the child in this awareness of responsibility and to improve certain behaviors. And sometimes, these elders are not there or in position to deal with behavioral issues of the child, and the child can easily put this energy online where they "think" they do not have to take account of their actions. If any player has any specific questions or an issue with a player(s), feel free to pm me. ~JZaanu
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