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11/24/2009 17:30:34   
Eladar
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Genuine concern would fall along the lines of expressing the issue as concerning, in a polite and constructive way, and trusting the staff to examine the problem and judge if something needs to be done. Complaining, on the other hand, is done despite staff addresses of the issue.
Genuine concern assumes that the staff will do what's best and correct?

I must disagree. I believe that you can see that something is wrong and in fact something be wrong even if the staff doesn't think this is the case. Two perfect examples that I've had direct intereaction with staff members over are Golden Plate (before it was re-released) and the Nerfkitten. I only mention this because at the time I was getting the "the staff disagrees with you and live with it" response. Now the staff has done a 360 on those two issues and now sees them as actual concnerns that need to be changed. Could the same thing happen in the future? I believe it could. Am I to understand that if something like that happens again, we should just say something, then never bring it up again? After a staff member says, this is the way it is going to be, I am not allowed to respond and give an honest opinion of the decision? I find it hypocritical to only allow posts that say what a great decision something is. If we are allowed to comment on the decision at all, I think everyone should be allowed to gve an honest response.


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but ultimately they may not agree with the assertions made by the members. This goes back to what Circe was saying, that what the KoO says goes.
Does this include discussions on efficient stat distribution?

< Message edited by Eladar -- 11/24/2009 18:11:40 >
AQ DF  Post #: 26
11/24/2009 19:03:38   
Lord Barrius
Member
 

No, a post does not need to be "positive/upbeat" to be acceptable. But it certainly doesn't hurt to be. Being nasty doesn't help your side one bit. Typically, if all you can post is nastiness, you shouldn't expect to receive positive reactions in turn.

I've been on that side of the argument. Where I thought something was an issue, but at the time it wasn't considered one by staff. Opinions change. But in such cases, the right thing to do is accept the staff's decision and move on (which I did). Insisting that you are right when you might not be, refusing to accept any opinion but your own, and continuing to "beat the dead horse"....that is trolling.

No one's saying the game staff are perfect, and that a player will never have a better answer for something than the staff. But you're confusing things. There's a difference between "giving an honest opinion" and "complaining/ranting/whining". You don't have to be nasty, degrading, or insensitive to give an opinion. Many of your posts in this very thread, for example, are not exactly expressed as politely as they could/should be. Expressing a different opinion does not necessarily require bitterness.

So basically: You don't have to say yes all the time. You can disagree with staff for making a decision about something, just as they can disagree with your assessments and decide not to follow your advice. It's when your posts veer into the realm of "this decision sucks and you suck for making it" that you're no longer just expressing an opinion. At that point, you are being a troll.
Post #: 27
11/24/2009 19:27:45   
Eladar
Member
 

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But in such cases, the right thing to do is accept the staff's decision and move on (which I did).
As did I on both of the examples I gave.

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Typically, if all you can post is nastiness, you shouldn't expect to receive positive reactions in turn.
I guess nastiness is in the eye of the beholder. I don't think I've ever posted anything nasty (that wasn't a reply in kind, I'm not perfect), but I have posted comments that voiced my opinion of changes and my view of the likely result. Since this would not be in support of changes made, this could be viewed as negative by those who want to support the change.

I don't recall ever saying that this decsion sucks and you suck for making it. I may have said something like "this decision is a mistake and the game will have a negative consequence because of it".

The typical thing that I hear when I make a comment about something (first time making it) is something like this: "Do you think that the KoO is a bunch of idiots? We know what we are doing, everything is going to work out fine". The "idiot" thing was actually something directly said, that exact word. Of course no explanation of how it would be handled, which is something I would have been interested in seeing. We are just to trust and obey as if we are in a parent child relationship here.
AQ DF  Post #: 28
11/24/2009 21:13:16   
Voivod
Banned


See, that's the problem. LB thinks the thread wasn't light hearted, yet I think it was very much so. I saw *nothing* that called it a rant thread. Most posts weren't even more than 3 -5 lines.

I don't understand the desire to swoop down and feel the need to defend everything and then call them pointless rants or call the thread or the post unhelpful,unproductive, or negative or whatever. In fact, I'd argue 98% of *all* threads are unproductive. They're forums. It's essentially a type of blog. ...it's not an online support group.


And that's what I don't get. As soon as someone says they, as an individual, and someone with the right to make their own judgement, decisions, etc on any one aspect, then all of a sudden some mod or staffer comes in with the uppity matter-of-fact tone and bullies their opinion onto the poster.

The poster says 'in my opinion' the mod says 'no, you're wrong.'

And then we have forumites who post things about mind control, as Yuric did. And then THAT gets deleted.

AQ  Post #: 29
11/24/2009 21:52:11   
zeke50100
Constructive


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I saw *nothing* that called it a rant thread. Most posts weren't even more than 3 -5 lines.


I did not personally see the thread. However, what I can tell you right now is that length doesn't make or break a rant.


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I don't understand the desire to swoop down and feel the need to defend everything and then call them pointless rants or call the thread or the post unhelpful,unproductive, or negative or whatever. In fact, I'd argue 98% of *all* threads are unproductive.


Untrue. There are plenty of productive posts out there. Also, even if a forum were 98% unproductive, it doesn't make it right.


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They're forums. It's essentially a type of blog. ...it's not an online support group.


Not true. A blog is for expressing one's feelings (And, since they're personal, they have no limits). A forum is expressing your ideas and bringing them up for discussion with the public. It DOES have limits, because it is very public. And in any case, Forum and Online Support Group are not mutually exclusive. You see those Q&A sections? Yeah.


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As soon as someone says they, as an individual, and someone with the right to make their own judgement, decisions, etc on any one aspect, then all of a sudden some mod or staffer comes in with the uppity matter-of-fact tone and bullies their opinion onto the poster.


98% of the time, posts are generally just complaints and whatnot. All posts with backed up reasoning are taken in legitimately. The reason they are often defeated is because the mod or staff in the situation has already come up with the idea, then thought against it.


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The poster says 'in my opinion' the mod says 'no, you're wrong.'


No, the mod says "You have little evidence to back your opinion." Also, opinion does not always mean "Legitimate discussion/complaint with reasoning." Many times, it's just "i dun liek tihs change it 1!!111!"


While there are cases in which I'm just shocked by the moderators' decisions, what you stated are not the reasons why.

~Zeke~
MQ  Post #: 30
11/24/2009 22:09:05   
ZanpakuTô
Legendary AdventureGuide!


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And then we have forumites who post things about mind control, as Yuric did. And then THAT gets deleted.


I don't ever recall a thread with a topic of mind control, so he must've strayed off of the topic; it's okay to emphasize other forumites' fame of mind - control, such as Falerin, but if it doesn't pertain to the thread topic, it should be deleted

< Message edited by DragonBlade -- 11/24/2009 22:18:40 >
AQ DF AQW  Post #: 31
11/24/2009 22:54:20   
Lord Barrius
Member
 

I mentioned this earlier, but I did agree with Voivod's assertion that the thread in question is getting derailed a good bit still. I'm going to be locking it now, but I'll post a new thread in relation to the subject I tried to steer it towards because I do feel that player feedback is critical to the game's continued success. I'm noting it here first so that no one is surprised or caught off-guard.

As for other assertions here, I'll repeat myself (again): You are welcome to your own opinion. You're welcome to express it. You are most certainly not welcome to express it in a nasty manner, nor are you welcome to continue to insist that staff acknowledge your opinion as the correct one and refuse to drop the subject. Doing so is trolling, plain and simple.
Post #: 32
11/24/2009 23:06:25   
Wilderock
Member

While I understand that tone is important and can change the overall implicit or underlying meaning of a post, from what I can tell, this entire thread is mostly:

A. Petty semantics

B. A thread telling users "the preferred way to post" (my opinion of this "side-debate" is that moderators should be hesitant to interpret or assume (especially since they could very well be wrong) the meaning of a post if it is not explicitly clear, considering that connotations, human error, context, and even bias can often get in the way of interpretation. And if they are to act on presumption, they should confirm the validity of their presumption with a colleague when considering punishment. Conversely, users should think twice before sounding disdainful and using pejorative language, especially if they are making a suggestion or request. Of course, this is mostly irrelevant).

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I have a position, but I am closer to neutral and am not portraying either party as grimy.

Let me make this abundantly clear: it shouldn't matter how you express your opinion, provided that it is not crossing the boundary. If it is not crossing the boundary, then it is acceptable. Because of that, it only seems logical to voice your opinion respectfully -- for both users and moderators alike, if they truly are held to the same standard. Moderators claim to be held to the same standard in that regard of politeness; leaders should lead by example; moderators who punish the impolite by being impolite, or react to the impolite by being impolite ... and then attempt to justify that must immediately concede the point that they are held to the same standard. In other words, a moderator cannot simultaneously argue that they're allowed to "show frustration" and also argue that they are held to the same behavioral standards. The two are contradictory and mutually exclusive ideas, in the basic words.

Again, if it is not crossing the boundary, then it is acceptable. This is agreed by moderators and users alike. The main disagreement lies in the fact that the moderators get to define the boundaries, and this is seen by some users as unfair (and I often find myself that moderators can be overzealous in their enforcement, or wrong in their interpretations, as any human will inevitably and eventually be).

As relativistic as "crossing the boundary" is, I believe that the argument from the moderators' perspective here is that nastiness and 'ad nauseum' are considered to be crossing that boundary, or trolling. In that case, I would argue that consistency is pivotal; while I am aware of the Tu Quoque fallacy, I am merely suggesting that moderators should "practice what they preach" and attempt to follow the same standard users are expected to, until a situation is serious enough to warrant otherwise (note that I am specifically not attempting to justify one wrongdoers actions by pointing out that a person in authority is committing the same wrongful act, even if they shamelessly deny it; I am simply criticizing any moderator who would do such a thing as blatantly disregard their own demands, or be hypocritical or inconsistent). If moderators are inconsistent, hypocritical, or use tenuous reasoning (such as a double standard, or Clause 24 of the Universal Rules) users are left no other option but to question their integrity and/or validity. This indirectly causes users to hard-press their opinions, especially if they genuinely and passionately feel they are correct. This is very often mistaken for trolling because of the ambiguity that exists when constituting each from each other, respectively. Using a double standard as a warrant to a claim is shaky at best, and is only passable because the rules aren't dictated by logic, but rather, by desire.

Surely a moderator would not be accused of trolling, much less castigated, for beating a dead horse, as it was accurately described earlier. The only reason such a perversion exists for the users is because they are not the authority; when a user "beats a dead horse", they are challenging authority. The user could be correct and the authority could very well be wrong, or they could each be correct in certain ways, but the authority could still justify any claims of harassment or trolling because of their infinite and unchecked power. The authority will always prevail in an authoritarian regime. It's that simple.

It has also been stated that moderators are subject to the same rules as users, but I do not believe they are subject to the same standards. Clause 24, I believe, of the Universal Rules provides infinite power to the moderator, and as long as the head admin agrees with the moderator, there is no check or balance (I would argue there is rarely an objective one from the start). From what I can tell, this thread is mostly a plea for democracy and/or equality (or at the very least, consistency). But the AE Forums are a totalitarian regime, and this inherently allows for human error, bias, and subjectivity, which will inevitably lead to mistakes. I can assuredly tell you that moderators can be overbearing, but likewise, users can be unreasonable (and the two very often cause each other).

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The poster says 'in my opinion' the mod says 'no, you're wrong.'


I believe you're oversimplifying the situation, although I would wholeheartedly agree with you that users' opinions are too often suppressed and moderators do use their authority to subjugate a user and ultimately act oppressively. However, this is clearly not always, or even usually, the case.

An opinion cannot be wrong, every opinion is justified. I don't want to push too far into semantics, but the facts an opinion are founded on can be wrong. I would argue that "wrong" is inappropriate syntax for this instance, regardless; moderators usually reject users' ideas or opinions on the premise that they are not plausible, not practical, or not preferable, and specifically not on the notion they're "wrong", but rather, unacceptable. And that is perfectly reasonable. By substituting the word "wrong" with either of the aforementioned alternative adjectives, you are committing the No True Scotsman fallacy.

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I don't understand the desire to swoop down and feel the need to defend everything and then call them pointless rants or call the thread or the post unhelpful,unproductive, or negative or whatever. In fact, I'd argue 98% of *all* threads are unproductive. They're forums. It's essentially a type of blog. ...it's not an online support group.


I would have to agree that you are undoubtedly correct when you say that most of the threads in this forum would fall into one of the aforementioned categories: "not productive", "not helpful", "negative", or what have you. However, I would argue you are undoubtedly incorrect when you suggest that the previously mentioned thread is akin to "98% of other 'unproductive' threads". They're not comparable, and shouldn't be categorized together; you're using equivocation to associate your poor behavior with acceptable behavior, when they're - again - truly not comparable. That is fallacious.




I do understand the general points Eladar and Voivod are conveying, when I look past the denotations. Deeper down, I agree with their sentiments on a much, much lower level. I feel that some moderators (and not any specific group of them) can act unreasonably or impulsively, or make bad judgment calls; that's expected. While users should remain civil, calm, and mature in their discussions (I agree with that assessment), I disagree with the implication that that should be an excuse to prematurely end a user's discussion, repress them, punish them, etc. If a user is not acting civilly, I, personally, feel a moderator should act diplomatically. Does my opinion constitute actuality? No. Will I voice my opinion, after reading the moderators' statements earlier that they largely consider user feedback? Yes. Am I representing my opinion as the correct and supreme opinion? No. I am merely pointing it out.

I have seen moderators appeal to their position in authority to attempt to justify their actions, and while this is illogical and a formal fallacy, it is permissible under the Universal Rules. I believe this is one of the biggest problems, as many more problems stem from it (including some problems Eladar and Voivod have voiced). However, it seems like a necessary evil ... on the other hand, it seems to be abused more than it is used.


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As for other assertions here, I'll repeat myself (again): You are welcome to your own opinion. You're welcome to express it. You are most certainly not welcome to express it in a nasty manner, nor are you welcome to continue to insist that staff acknowledge your opinion as the correct one and refuse to drop the subject. Doing so is trolling, plain and simple.


I disagree. You see, there is mostly an undiplomatic way of punishing trolls. A uniform, textbook way. There is mostly one accepted consequence of trolling. However, there are many different forms of trolling. Therefore, where is the equity? I would also say what you defined as trolling literally does not even sufficiently cover denotations, much less connotations, much less context. Trolling is always intentional. Unintentional trolling should be specifically regarded as unintentional, or given a new name. This is because the connotations that come along with the word "trolling" are negative, and unintentional trolling is generally not malicious or "negative".

Note: the following demonstration is not meant to sound nasty, and is completely unintentional if associated with trolling, and is not malicious, and I am not being sarcastic.

I am welcome to my opinion.

I proudly express my opinions.

I have expressed my opinions in nasty manners, and I should be welcome to. "Being nasty" is not explicitly or implicitly against the rules, and to claim as such is a gross perversion, and would be manipulative and coercive; one cannot be punished because of "social taboo" or "what mods want", in rudimentary terms. If someone is trolling and being nasty, then they ought to be punished for trolling; that is against the rules; being nasty is not. I am welcome to be nasty as long as I accept the consequence: being cast out from the "liked" circle, and you know exactly what circle I am referring to, whether you believe it exists or not. Being formally punished cannot be a direct consequence of being nasty, for being nasty is against no rule, but only expectations!

I believe you mean "continue to insist staff acknowledge their opinion as the correct one, and (you) refuse to drop the subject" or "...continue to insist staff acknowledge your opinion as the incorrect one, and (you) refuse to drop the subject". Because what you said doesn't seem to make sense to me, and if I am mistaken ... well, that only proves my above notion that interpretation is not reliable. :P

Either way, I would argue that IF the user is simply hard-pressing what they believe to be the genuine truth, THEN a moderator suppressing that supposed truth rather than debunking it is truly the person at fault ... because they're not helping the situation. And I would argue that the user, in that instance, would not be trolling. The way you represent this whole "trolling" issue seems to be illogical; it is not black or white, as you imply; it is usually not trolling, as you imply; is not 'plain and simple', as you state. To claim it is plain and simple is either a profound mistake or profoundly ignorant.

Now, I am not applying these assertions to what happened in the thread that has been alluded to; I am speaking mostly hypothetically. I did not read said thread, admittedly.

< Message edited by Wilderock -- 11/24/2009 23:26:44 >
AQ DF MQ  Post #: 33
11/24/2009 23:11:03   
blast!blast!
Member

I believe that the aphorism "If men were angels, there would be no need for Government" applies here. Just because the Mods and Aks have near absolute power over the workings of the forum, does not mean that they will be absolutely perfect in the way that they utilize that power. If "Absolute power corrupts absolutely", than near absolute power would corrupt very much. I do not believe that it is as severe as that, but it does apply.
DF MQ AQW  Post #: 34
11/24/2009 23:24:08   
Eladar
Member
 

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nor are you welcome to continue to insist that staff acknowledge your opinion as the correct one and refuse to drop the subject. Doing so is trolling, plain and simple.
Yet the staff insists that we agree with their point of view or at the very least let them have the final word on the issue and we are to remain silent. I do not believe that this is right and I think this is what Voivod is calling mind control. We must accept what the staff says as fact and not question it, and to continue to question and rebutt what the staff says is considered trolling and can get you banned. I think this is an abuse of power.
AQ DF  Post #: 35
11/24/2009 23:30:03   
Wilderock
Member

Eladar, I have discussed that exact issue thoroughly with Falerin once. In the issue I discussed, it was a necessary evil. He ended the thread with the last word, but in that case, it was probably best. Let's say he "used" the ability.

I would agree with you when you say in some instances, that ability is "abused".

Threads are often prematurely ended with insufficient grounds to lock them, and if you continue to express what you feel is genuinely correct ... you are a troll? That's preposterous; wherein lies the difference between "appealing a decision" and "harassing a moderator"? The perverted definition of the term "trolling" has blinded judgment.

Also worth pointing out: dissent is the greatest form of patriotism.
AQ DF MQ  Post #: 36
11/24/2009 23:30:46   
ZanpakuTô
Legendary AdventureGuide!


First, in just about any organization, jobsite, etc., the top mods will always have the final say; it's happened throughout history, and even now. Next, having the final say doesn't forbid one from speaking their mind. Finally, the way people speak their minds is the problem. They whine or spam their desires, breaking many ground rules, that of which would annoy anyone to no ends
AQ DF AQW  Post #: 37
11/24/2009 23:46:01   
Wilderock
Member

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First, in just about any organization, jobsite, etc., the top mods will always have the final say; it's happened throughout history, and even now. Next, having the final say doesn't forbid one from speaking their mind. Finally, the way people speak their minds is the problem. They whine or spam their desires, breaking many ground rules, that of which would annoy anyone to no ends


Comparing an internet forum to a jobsite is a faulty analogy; that's a fallacy; therefore, that argument is dismissible.

Secondly, just because something has "happened through history", is "natural", or is "accepted", does not make it correct; that would be an appeal to nature or an appeal to tradition, both of which are fallacies; therefore, that argument is dismissible.

Moderators usually resort to Clause #24 of the Universal Rules to justify suppressing a user, which is in and of itself an appeal to authority, another fallacy. I am not suggesting that should make the rule invalid, but I am suggesting it makes the rule unfair.

Thirdly, you state that when a moderator has the final say, this does not stop users from speaking their minds. However, it does restrict and limit their means of doing so. And a mod can - at any time - end a discussion - even if they are wrong - according to Clause #24. Now, I can agree with the mods that the whiners and spammers should be shut down immediately. However, my idea of a middle ground is much lager than theirs. It is in that regard where I beg to differ; I feel there is a much larger gray area than they do between 'trolling' and 'not trolling', 'harassing' and 'not harassing', etc.

Finally, just because something is "annoying" does not make it wrong or impermissible.

I do not have a problem with moderators reasonably shutting down people who are being unreasonable; I do have a problem with moderators unreasonably shutting down people who are being reasonable. And a mods' understanding of 'reasonable', to me, is very unreasonable. Unfortunately, logic has little significance. A law is deemed invalid when it is unconstitutional (in the US, anyway); a rule or ruling is not deemed invalid when it is fallacious.

< Message edited by Wilderock -- 11/24/2009 23:47:49 >
AQ DF MQ  Post #: 38
11/24/2009 23:46:46   
zeke50100
Constructive


If you want to complain about something, do it in an intelligent, constructive manner.

If you just whine, the discussion won't be ended for WHAT you said (Well, sometimes, it is >.>), but HOW you said it.

"I don't like this change it!!!!!!" isn't really right, for example.

~Zeke~
MQ  Post #: 39
11/24/2009 23:53:08   
Wilderock
Member

Why should the only voices that are heard be the constructive ones? I agree that there are inappropriate complaints that deserve to be shut down -- we can call those the "completely nonconstructive" complaints.

But how do you define the in-between?

Moderators should not be allowed to say: "Complain in the way in which we want you to complain, otherwise we will shut you down." This is, of course, a simplified version.

Being constructive or polite is not always the only appropriate way to complain, and not being polite while not being impolite is, conversely, not always inappropriate. "How you say it" should have less value than "what you're saying", because that is what's essentially most important; the essence of the complaint itself - or the actual complaint - is much more important than how one complains. For example, if someone is nasty, but correct ... the fact they're being nasty should not inherently shut down their complaint. I'm not saying this is what happens, but it is sure what zeke is suggesting.
AQ DF MQ  Post #: 40
11/24/2009 23:57:38   
ZanpakuTô
Legendary AdventureGuide!


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Comparing an internet forum to a jobsite is a faulty analogy; that's a fallacy; therefore, that argument is dismissible


It's not exactly a comparison of area, it was supposed to compare rankings

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Secondly, just because something has "happened through history", is "natural", or is "accepted", does not make it correct; that would be an appeal to nature or an appeal to tradition, both of which are fallacies; therefore, that argument is dismissible


Okay, that is true, but the point being is that there is still a gap in rank between forumites and mods

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However, it does restrict and limit their means of doing so


Not exactly; there are some things that staff absolutely say they will not do, and when people preach about having it, then they are somewhat disrespected. Mods aren't gods, and will listen to people. If they didn't want people speaking their minds, they wouldn't have any Suggestion Boards or the General Discussion

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Finally, just because something is "annoying" does not make it wrong or impermissible


Agreed, it doesn't make them wrong. However, it isn't a good section of morality if you had gotten your way by whining about it

Staff doesn't mind Suggestions, but when thousands of people speak their minds without discipline or regards of what is within the realm of possibility or impossiblity, even staff will reach their limits
AQ DF AQW  Post #: 41
11/25/2009 0:01:44   
Lord Barrius
Member
 

From what I can tell, Wilde, your post boils down to a few points, so I will address those directly. It's more efficient than quoting your paragraphs.

The first section, essentially, seems to presume much about how posts are actually treated without much knowledge about the actual process. It's true that group judgement is often best, and most of the time, that is actually applied. However, what you are essentially suggesting is that moderators should not make decisions by themselves. The entire reason an individual is granted mod-ship is because of their ability to carefully assess the situation at hand and respond appropriately. The admins do not turn people into moderators for having poor judgement. To assess that no moderator should try to presume tone and should consult others goes against the entire point of their promotion. They were granted the position because they can be expected to respond appropriately and exercise good judgement. Any case in which they are not, as I stated earlier, should be reported along the proper chain of command....not blurted in a public forum.

Secondly, and perhaps most key, is the note that tone should not change the validity of the opinion. I agree, it should not. But that was not what I asserted. Validity of an opinion is not determined by the tone it is expressed in, but how the opinion is taken most certainly is. And this is true of all real life scenarios: the way in which you say something can directly affect the way it is received by the one you're speaking to. This is no secret, it's a fundamental concept of human nature. Tone is an essential part of language, because it helps assess the statements in the fullest light. If you express something in a calm, clear, and generally friendly demeanor, it will typically be better received than a foul or nasty expression. So while I agree that an opinion's validity is not changed by the form of expression, the reception most certainly is. And it should be, because that's how human nature works.

Third, you assert that moderators and users are not perfectly equal. That is true. One has been granted authority over the forums to keep order over the forums, and one has not. Naturally, one is expected to lead and the other is not. This does not mean the user's values and opinions are any less important, but you seem to imply that we think so. Quite the opposite, really. The very continuation of this thread, as well as the replies from multiple members of moderating staff should indicate to you that we do not feel a user's opinion is any less important. That said, because moderators are expected to manage the forums, they will be at liberty to make judgement calls. That is expected of them, as their job as a moderator. It is not oppression of our users for a moderator to make such calls...it is their job. And moderators do not exert their power for their own amusement. Suggesting otherwise feels rather silly to me.

Fourth, opinions can be "wrong". You are misjudging the term. "Wrong" is approximately defined as something believed by authority or by the majority to be an incorrect assertion of the nature of things. Someone can most certainly be "wrong" despite that the statement in question is their opinion. If opinions could not be erroneous, then much of the existing social structure would not exist or would exist under a false premise. Assertions in this thread, in fact, could easily be labeled as both an opinion and "wrong"....assertions like "the forum staff use their power to oppress user's opinions and force them to think differently". This is an opinionated statement based on the user's subjective experience with moderation staff....it is also wrong in that moderators do not exert any manner of force on users' thoughts at all, only their behavior and the manner in which those thoughts are expressed.

Fifth, and lastly, you assert that a user's behavior should be welcomed regardless of attitude, and that the rules do not expressly state limits on behavior. This is inherently incorrect for several reasons. The biggest one is that, depending on how the attitude is expressed, it often also warrants warnings for flaming/trolling, which most certainly ARE covered in the rules in every forum on this website. Also, some forums DO have behavioral policies. For example, DF Suggestions, prior to being turned into a thread-only forum, specifically stated that users were not permitted to be nasty towards people expressing ideas you did not agree with. It was very specifically stated that posts which were nasty or demeaning would be taken as flaming and removed. In addition, most forums which do not have such a rule carry other rules which cover this, such as the "other rules not specifically mentioned" clause. You likely would assert that such rules are a gross misuse of the forum rules, but I disagree. I think that in order to maintain a family friendly forum, a moderator (and the AKs) must be expected to make judgement calls about many things which will not always come up. Things which a specific rule might not cover. And such clauses exist for that reason. Behavior must be considered in posting, otherwise there is no way to properly assess the flaming/trolling nature of a post. What you suggest is impossible.
Post #: 42
11/25/2009 0:08:17   
Wilderock
Member

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It's not exactly a comparison of area, it was supposed to compare rankings


I do understand. I also do disagree. An employee:employer relationship is not very comparable to a user:moderator relationship. They are in minor ways, but the comparison is apples to gorillas.

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Not exactly; there are some things that staff absolutely say they will not do, and when people preach about having it, then they are somewhat disrespected. Mods aren't gods, and will listen to people. If they didn't want people speaking their minds, they wouldn't have any Suggestion Boards or the General Discussion


I'm not sure what you mean by this, so you could elaborate if you want to. All I have to say is that the last sentence is a fallacy; that of Hypothesis Contrary to Fact.

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Agreed, it doesn't make them wrong. However, it isn't a good section of morality if you had gotten your way by whining about it


I believe the end would justify the mean in this instance; morality is irrelevant, and to claim the more moral option is better would be the Moral High Ground fallacy.

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Staff doesn't mind Suggestions, but when thousands of people speak their minds without discipline or regards of what is within the realm of possibility or impossibility, even staff will reach their limits


I believe "thousands of people" is a gross case of hyperbole, but beyond that, I guess I would agree with this statement; I have all along; people who speak without discipline or regards to practicality should be shut down. It is the lack of an apparent middle ground that I have beef with.
AQ DF MQ  Post #: 43
11/25/2009 0:20:18   
ZanpakuTô
Legendary AdventureGuide!


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An employee:employer relationship is not very comparable to a user:moderator relationship. They are in minor ways, but the comparison is apples to gorillas.


It's not that far off; simply, it's the Consumer versus the Employee, in your analogy

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I'm not sure what you mean by this, so you could elaborate if you want to. All I have to say is that the last sentence is a fallacy; that of Hypothesis Contrary to Fact


Basically, both the Suggestions and General Discussion are both boards to speak one's mind freely, but there are still rules to consider and follow, as when dealing with someone else's property

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I believe the end would justify the mean in this instance; morality is irrelevant, and to claim the more moral option is better would be the Moral High Ground fallacy


Morality isn't irrelevant; not following your morality is a sign of weakening [not that you absolutely have to follow, but it's supposed to contribute to willpower rather than whining]

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I believe "thousands of people" is a gross case of hyperbole


Gross, but true
AQ DF AQW  Post #: 44
11/25/2009 0:30:39   
Seahawk
Member

Addressing the initial point of this thread:

We do hold moderators to the same rules as we hold our forum members. In fact, we often hold them to stricter rules then we hold our forum members. I have been involved in the removal of more then one archknight or moderator who has posted something that, while acceptable for a member, was unacceptable for someone representing AE to post. Just because you don't see it doesn't mean we don't discipline staff who break the rules... we just don't do it publicly, just as we don't publicly discuss the bans and/or warnings we send to any member of our forum community.

As for any other points in this thread, I think I'd be guilty of restating the same points that have already been made if I stopped to address each one of them. I'll just sum up by saying yes, you are allowed to disagree with decisions we make. Yes, you are allowed to pursue a rational and polite discussion of those disagreements. But you also have to accept the fact that, by nature of our positions as AE staff, in many cases we can speak from a level of authority that your opinions (no matter how valid or well-stated they are) just don't have. As such, in many cases, when we give you the "final word" on a subject, continuing to argue it further is counter-productive and often becomes troll-ish.

When you speak, you speak in opinions. When we respond, we speak in facts. I'm sure that sounds far more elitist then I mean it to, but it's true. If you offer your opinion and we still disagree with you, it's probably time to just let it go and move on. Anything else usually becomes the proverbial beating of the deceased equine.

And on that note, I think we've drifted far off of the intent of the "Forums Suggestions" subforum... at thsi point, the suggestion has been made and responded to.

Seahawk


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