DeathGuard -> RE: Communal Feeling in ED (8/28/2011 16:28:20)
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As an actual teacher, I can comment on this. I don't believe in "bad students" or "good students" persay. Certainly I've had students I liked more than others, and I've had students who make me wish that teachers could still crack knuckles with a ruler like the olden days. But I don't believe any student is just a bad person, and I always feel bad when I see kids getting kicked out of my class for one reason or another because it does feel like a failure. It's something that some teachers grow callous to over time, just as doctors learn not to break down every time they lose a patient, but that doesn't necessarily mean that it's ever easy, and it's never easy for me. Certainly, when I ban people, I HATE it. I'm not thrilled when I hit that button. You're welcome to keep believing that I'm some heartless dude who enjoys throwing power around if it makes you all feel better about demeaning me, but there are people out there who know better of me than you do. *shrug* At any rate, there's no reason to hate any student for me, and I want every student of mine to succeed. And every one who doesn't, well, that hurts. A lot. I don't think it's a matter of being ignored at all. I think you're all acting out in the only way you know how because you FEEL like you're being ignored, and you don't realize that such behavior is not the proper way to go about it. It's always easier to take constructive criticism to heart than demeaning comments, and all the devs are hearing is the latter. Worse, you don't even realize that you're not being constructive, or you think it's fine because they should just "grow up" and "be adults". But civilized adults don't DO the things you're doing. It's a false belief. Cindy made an excellent point that I think should be noted here: You don't think anything of insulting the devs when you're mad, because "they're adults" which means they should be willing to take all of your harassment. But think about it....would YOU keep working at a job which beat you up 24/7? They don't HAVE to keep making this game, guys, and if you keep discouraging them, they're not going to want to make this game. But no one seems to be thinking about each other's feelings one bit here. Just because we're all adults doesn't mean feelings stop mattering. Well at first, I see your hidden truth in your post and I agree some of the parts, but I know a friend that is a fellow forumer and he posts many good ideas, but he was a flamer back then and now he's being ignored :/. I won't work at a job hearing that kind of comments, I will close the doors of the company/store/job in their faces because I'll feel stressed. Yea, I understand that. I'm tell you this, my mother works in a security company 16 hours per day, and she always get yelled at people who said their alarm and such apparatus are ruined,destroyed, and all that but she stays calm and try to fix the problem with them, try to calm their anger, because SHE knows she has to work to get payed my private school and all the responsabilites she has. I know the Devs has feelings so my mom does, and sometimes she even cries in the road to home. LB, I was not trying to demean anyone or make feel bad to someone, but I just give an example that at least in my country is seen constantly. I'm not trying to bring this thread down but point out the flaws it has. I received like 1 month and a half a official warning for saying something innapropiate to someone well known here, and I realized it just make me happy for the moment but then unhappiness come up at me. I'm trying to accept everyone's perspective, but is hard, is really hard for me that they don't accept mine as I accept them's.
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